Couples Psychotherapy never works to aid relationships with Borderlines. If anyone tells ya it does, they're lying.

The Borderline is a pathological liar. As part of a couple in treatment, the Borderline is wholly dedicated to winning the therapist over, and convincing him/her they're the one to be pitied, and handled with kid gloves.

Borderline clients bend, exaggerate and subvert facts to fit their own narrative, in order to control the therapeutic relationship and be sympathetically regarded as 'The Victim' within their relationship dynamic... and as solid actors, they're extremely convincing!

Within individual treatment, a coupled Borderline ALTERNATES between praising their lover (to the therapist), to devaluating, vilifying and invalidating them in sessions, week to week. When you're involved with a BPD individual, it's always a love/hate relationship, which has NOTHING to do with you!

This is merely fallout from disappointing, hurtful, abandoning wounds left over from infancy and early childhood experiences with their Mother, and it's called, TRANSFERENCE. YOU are simply the less-threatening, more convenient target for their unresolved mommy issues!

Young/inexperienced therapists unfamiliar to the Borderline's black or white thinking, labile moods, cognitive dissonance and manipulation tactics, fall for this common therapy seduction all the time. The therapist is often pathologically codependent, with BPD traits. They cannot acknowledge these features within themselves, so they can't discern them in their clients or patients.

It's not that you can't remain long-term with a Borderline. It's that you cannot anticipate that this will EVER be a harmonious, loving, mutually nourishing relationship experience, and THAT my dears, is a huge compromise to make, if "Happiness" has ever been something to which you aspire.

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Unbreakable
By Billy Graham • November 14


. . . but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.
—Joshua 24:15
The basic unit of any society is the home. When the home begins to break, the society is on the way to disintegration. Thousands of homes are almost on the rocks. Many couples are fearful lest their home, too, will be broken some day. There is one great insurance policy that you can take out, in order to guarantee the unity and happiness of your home. It is simple: Make Christ the center of your home.

A home is like a solar system. The center, the great sun, holds the solar system together. If it were not for the sun, the solar system would fly to pieces. Unless the Son of God is put at the center of your home, it, too, may fly to pieces.

Prayer for the day
How easy it is to push You to one side, Lord, and superficially remember Your blessings. May we always keep You at the center of all that we do in our homes. Amen.

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