04/23/2023

Do you want them to evaluate right from wrong or do you want to motivate them to act out of fear?

All choices are made out of love or fear. It is fear that leads parents to strict obedience, behavior modification, and punishment/consequences. Fear of a lack of respect. Fear of a lack of politeness or manners. Fear of potential danger or harm. Fear of not being in charge or having 'the' authority. All of these fears trigger an innate sense of duty as a parent because 98.9% of the population has been programmed to believe that parents must attempt to control these concerns or they aren't good parents. But, by attempting to mold children into our ideas of what they need to be instead of allowing them to be who they are, we often do more harm than good, creating animosity, contributing to trauma, and damaging our relationship with our children. Many simply believe this is just parenting but I am here to tell you that it's not and there is a better way.

This goes beyond just spanking. What is needed is a complete overhaul of known parenting paradigms, the predominate being the 'authoritarian parenting paradigm'.

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